I suggest looking into the two knotty boys book and when I get home I can recommend another for terrestrial bondage. Others still just look really fancy and nice and are great for scenes and pictures.
Some dont break under stress or get worn easily when wet(like sweat). Others are used because they do not get tighter so are great for arms and human bits. Some are used because they get tighter as they are pulled so great as anchors on poles, rods, or wood rails and such. Learn why ties, wraps, and knots are chosen over others. You can always start up again.I know this is like four days after, but dont try to learn yourself or just specific knots. Let loose and enjoy the experience! Pushing your boundaries is probably the most thrilling aspect of bondage, but if youre not having fun dont be afraid to slow down or stop. You and your partner(s) should decide prior to playing what word, when uttered, means stop this and untie me pronto! Pick something unmistakable like sassafras or Chechnya. Sometimes saying stop isnt enough, especially if your bondage involves role-play. The risk of fainting, pinched nerves, or suffocation is too high.Īll advanced sex play should make use of a safe word. Never, ever, ever leave a bound person alone for any length of time, especially facedown or standing. Use square knots that can be undone easily.
Also be aware of vital organs and jointsareas where blood flow can be restricted by tight ropes. Keep one or two finger widths between any restraint and the flesh, especially across the torso and chest where breathing can be restricted. For advanced techniques, pick up a copy of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori.ĭont make any restraints too tight. The pros make it look easy, but youve got to learn the basics first. Newbies must not try suspension from a ceiling or wall or mummification during bondage. Never use any materials for bondage that you cant sacrifice to the scissors. Keep scissors handy in case you have to cut him loose in a hurry. Silk scarves may look glam, but knots in silk can quickly get too tight to untie. Check in frequently with the one being bound to make sure hes not getting too warm. Tape shouldnt be used for long bondage sessions because it can trap heat and cause body temperature to rise. Similarly, sports tape is designed not to damage your sensitive parts when it comes off, so its useful in a pinch. If you have no rope, PVC tape will work because it sticks to itself, not to skin. Use the longer lengths for more elaborate bondage. Use the shorter pieces (12 feet or so) for tying up hands and feet. Get at least 100 feet of rope to cut into varying lengths. For comfort and safety, make sure your rope is no thinner than half an inch. Twine and scratchy ropes are definite no-nos.
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If you use rope for bondage, remember that the rope will be in direct contact with the skin so you must select epidermis-friendly material, like clothesline, that wont rub you the wrong way. But before tying your trick to the bed with an antique Hermes scarf (not recommended), check off all the items on this beginners list to ensure safe, sane play. Bondage can make for a tryst to remember, and can be a thrilling, intense experience for first-timers.
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